Tuesday, December 09, 2008

Let's Chill

...actually, LET'S NOT! Not in your house anyway. What is up with this guys? When did dating consist of constantly coming to your house and watching random dvds as you consistently get denied physical advancement? GET THE HINT STUPID! Forgive me readers, I'm really annoyed right now (as if you couldn't tell) but some men really don't get it. I have always been in the school of thought that if a man can only hang out with you in his house then he's just not that into you or he's just trying to get into you. Now, I'm hanging out with a certain guy who I've known for sometime but have never been available to until now. However, he has it all confused. If you like me, like you say you do then take my word for when I say- you're apartment won't do! (No matter how stunning the view is!) What happened to the simple things- dinner...movies...hookah? Is it really that difficult? I've already been up front- we're not going there. I'm celibate and I have no intentions of discontinuing that until I am with someone who is worth my energy. I can't say all guys have this issue, recently I went on a cool date to Apache Cafe here in Atlanta and listened to live music and enjoyed the open mic. I'm not saying you need to treat me to Ruth Chris and the Atlanta Ballet every evening but show a little initiative (though I do love the finer things). Have some pride- your apartment barely has furniture! I know it's cuddling weather but really you don't even know me like that partner!

3 comments:

ArtOfficialIntelligence said...

This post is so on point!! These guys just don't get the picture... and it has nothing to do with money, I feel like its an issue of respect. You take a ho to the hotel, and I am far from that! I mean, does dude not want to be seen with me in public, or do I just seem that easy that he would suggest to go to his house rather than have an actual date?? I dunno, maybe I'm just old-fashioned...

The Maverick said...

i totally feel you on that, that's how they do"come over, let's chill" when what they really want to say is "come over so i can get some" you just got to let shit go and put your foot down demand respect, be blunt about it and tell him that ain't nothing gon go down by you coming over his house repeatedly.


oh and lls at

he barely got furniture in his house .

F.A.R. said...

Me being a guy and even though Im not suppose to be admitting this ... Its TOTALLY 100% TRUE !

-Shh. Hopefully not many females would read this haha